I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. Now after reading this blog I feel like I made the right choice. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame. I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. Men search the world for women that they can stand to be around with long-term. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
I think love and caring can be more important. I'm currently married to a second year resident in emergency medicine. I'm raising great kids alone I'm alone at all those same events It's been a huge personal sacrifice to support my husband all these years. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. They think highly enough of themselves, don't add to their ego. I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. You can even spice it up with a little "desperate housewives lifestyle".
I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. I have read some of the comment here and would like to share my experience. Stick around on this sub. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. However, and this might sound sad. There have been times in the last three years that we have had to live paycheck to paycheck so the idea of a rich doctor is antiquated in most cases. We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up.
I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. Any advice is greatly appreciated. It all depends on the girl. Lyman April 24, How appropriate to celebrate this second night of Hannukah with not one but two queries about interfaith marriage.